AI co-pilot for kink & BDSM

Read the dynamic.
Own the negotiation.

Kink IQ pairs you with O.N.Y.X. (Observant Negotiation-aware eXpert) — a private AI advisor built for the kink, BDSM, and fetish world. It reads the power dynamic, finds the words for the conversations that matter, and helps you negotiate limits, safewords, and scenes with confidence and consent. Emotional intelligence, delivered as telemetry.

18+ only · Private from the first tap · Cancel anytime

Kink IQ — Know your kink. Elevate your connections.

What O.N.Y.X. actually does

Not therapy. Not hype. An operator that reads the dynamic and hands you the next move — Dom, sub, switch, or still figuring it out.

Reads the dynamic

Paste a thread and O.N.Y.X. tells you who holds the power, where consent got fuzzy, and the one move that re-opens the conversation.

Drafts the message

Stuck on how to ask for what you want — or how to say no? Get an on-voice draft in seconds, plus a softer or more direct variant.

Sharpens your profile

Score your FetLife or app profile, catch what reads vague about your role, limits, and what you're into, and get a punchy rewrite in your own voice.

Plans the scene

A calm, consent-first game plan: how to open negotiation, questions that surface hard limits and safewords, what aftercare looks like, and a graceful way to slow down or stop.

Meet O.N.Y.X.

Observant Negotiation-aware eXpert — a co-pilot that learns your dynamics and turns them into clearer, more consensual play.

ObservantReads the room and remembers your patterns
Negotiation-fluentFluent in limits, safewords, and consent
YoursAlways on your side, always on
eXactingDelivers the reads that matter

How it works

STEP 01
Create your account

Email and password. 18+, and private from the first tap.

STEP 02
Pick your plan

Pro, monthly or yearly. Secure checkout by Stripe — cancel anytime.

STEP 03
O.N.Y.X. goes to work

Dynamic reads, next moves, profile tune-ups, and consent-first scene plans — on tap, whenever you need them.

Simple, honest pricing

One simple plan — Pro. $19.99/mo, or save with yearly. No data selling, cancel anytime — a co-pilot that pays for itself in one good conversation.

Pro · Monthly
$19.99/mo
  • 1M energy every month
  • Priority model for sharper reads
  • Profile, conversation & scene reads + screenshots
Pro · Yearly
$220/yr
  • Just $18.33/mo — save ~$20/yr
  • 1M energy/mo + priority model
  • Best value

Energy = AI usage, shown as one simple battery. Need more mid-month? One-time top-up packs live in the app.

Built from inside the community

Kink IQ is built by someone who lives in the kink, BDSM, and fetish world — solving a problem we had ourselves, for people who deserve tools that actually get it.

O.N.Y.X. (Observant Negotiation-aware eXpert) is the co-pilot we always wished we had: judgment-free, consent-first, and private from the first tap.

Got a question, some feedback, or just want to say hello? Reach out anytime at butler@kinkiq.ai.